How To Tell a Guy You Like Him

So, you like a guy, do you? It sounds simple enough, but if you want to let him know that you like him, it can be a bit tougher.  You're probably going to need to flirt, have a few conversations, and then drop the actual question. This article will teach you exactly how to do that!

Find out whether he likes you first. If he does, go forth with confidence; you have nothing to lose! If he doesn't, don't despair; you have time to convince him. But if he doesn't yet have feelings for you, there's still plenty of time to be friendly and flirt. 

Try to start simple conversation with him. In order to tell a guy you like him, or even ask him out, you'll need to first have a talking relationship. This just means being on friendly terms, knowing a little about each other, and beginning to develop a more intimate familiarity. Talk about something that will flatter him. A great conversation starter is something that makes him feel good about himself.

Try flirting with him. Guys are notoriously bad at realizing that girls are flirting with them. That doesn't mean that you should flirt more; it just means that you should be aware that he might not flirt back with you, even if he likes you. When he's talking to you, twirl your hair as you listen. This action is natural enough for most people not to make anything of it, but if he says something about it, then he's definitely paying attention. This is an easy flirting method to use.

Break the touch barrier. Begin to show him that you're interested by touching him in safe, but suggestive, places. Try these on for size: Hang or rest on his shoulder. Pretend to be bored and rest your head on his shoulder. Or simply rest your hands on his shoulder. Give him a good look in his eyes if he looks back at you, Find excuses to touch him. If he's got really big hands, just take his hands and say something like "Wow, you're hands are huge; look at how big they are compared to mine!" Fit your hand into his.

If you're ready to tell him. If you came here, though, you probably had the direct approach in mind. If you're feeling brave, simply tell him. You want to catch him away from his friends, and with ample time. Look confident, or better yet, be confident. Start up a regular conversation, and wait until a pause to tell him.

Whatever he says, have confidence in yourself. If he says yes (and he should!) be confident that he likes you for who you are, and that that person is genuinely likable. If he doesn't like you back, have confidence that his tastes don't define you, and that there are plenty of other guys out there who would be lucky to have you. Remember that!

Heart! We will forget him! You and Me, today!
You may forget the warmth he gave,
I will forget the light!
But I can still see his image on my head! 
Why do I keep doing this to myself?